Wait for some time. At the beginning when the relationship just ended is better that you avoid all contact with your ex or reduce it to as little as possible to accelerate the process of healing. If he was the one ending the relationship or cheated on you it is better to completely stay away for some time.
When is it okay or recommended to talk to your ex-husband? Just in the case of medical emergencies regarding your children, school celebrations, birthday parties, games, Christmas, graduations, etc. Keep it brief and just about your kids.
When is actually a healthy thing to talk to your ex? When you are completely over him, so, you get closure. Women need closure, men don’t. And the way a woman gets it by talking to him. You may just need to tell him “I never really say good bye and give him a hug”. Then you are ready to find love again. But to do this, you must grieve and heal first. Then it is o.k. and actually helpful to move forward. However, some men resist having contact again because they are afraid to go back or may think that their ex-wives or ex-girlfriends want them back.
When is it okay or recommended to talk to your ex-husband? Just in the case of medical emergencies regarding your children, school celebrations, birthday parties, games, Christmas, graduations, etc. Keep it brief and just about your kids.
When is actually a healthy thing to talk to your ex? When you are completely over him, so, you get closure. Women need closure, men don’t. And the way a woman gets it by talking to him. You may just need to tell him “I never really say good bye and give him a hug”. Then you are ready to find love again. But to do this, you must grieve and heal first. Then it is o.k. and actually helpful to move forward. However, some men resist having contact again because they are afraid to go back or may think that their ex-wives or ex-girlfriends want them back.