and everything else it will come by itself”.
—The Bible
After the loss of a love one or divorce you can find balance again by finding a healthy replacement for the love you lost. For example, if your father died, you may want to get the support from an uncle or a mentor; if your son or daughter died you may give and receive love from a pet or volunteer making a difference in children’s lives by volunteering in a hospital, advocate for children in foster homes, etc.; if your real mom or sisters are not supportive, you may get the support from older women in places where you help them.