Karla asked me this question. The way to avoid conflicts is to write down all your upset feelings in a nice way, or using profanity if that helps you to release your anger and rip the paper into a million pieces and break the pen or pencil. Take a walk, breath in and exhale slowly as you walk. Remind yourself that you chose to be in peace and radiate love. Give your man time and space when he is stress out or upset. He will calm down and then you can ask for what you want with the conviction will give it to you because he loves you and wants to make you happy. Listen to him and compromise too; love is a give and take, but you must give what he actually needs.
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