In the U.S. one out of three women lives in domestic violence. Once you get involved with a “mentally unhealthy man” it takes a lot of work to get rid of him. And unfortunately, many women never make it; they get killed in their intent. Consequently, women have to be a lot wiser and don’t even allow these men the opportunity to pursue them. After interviewing thousands of women, I realized that prevention is the only solution. For this reason, it is important to create awareness in women about the risk that they take when looking for love, so they are careful and chose wisely. Check the following link where you will find valuable information and share it with anyone in danger of getting involved in an unhealthy relationship. www.preventingunhealthyrelationships.weebly.com
In the U.S. one out of three women lives in domestic violence. Once you get involved with a “mentally unhealthy man” it takes a lot of work to get rid of him. And unfortunately, many women never make it; they get killed in their intent. Consequently, women have to be a lot wiser and don’t even allow these men the opportunity to pursue them. After interviewing thousands of women, I realized that prevention is the only solution. For this reason, it is important to create awareness in women about the risk that they take when looking for love, so they are careful and chose wisely. Check the following link where you will find valuable information and share it with anyone in danger of getting involved in an unhealthy relationship. www.preventingunhealthyrelationships.weebly.com
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Many women close their hearts after a painful love experience like an abusive relationship, betrayal, deception, etc. They don’t trust themselves anymore when choosing romantic partners, and they don’t want to take any chances. When a woman is afraid to fall in love, she looks for excuses to fight with her new admirer, so she can push him away, and be safe.
After a while these women realize that they want to be loved and overcome their fears, but they don’t know how to do it. The answer is: First, walk away from aggressive pursuers that just want casual sex. Second, get to know men well and start by being just friends. Once you know a man for quite some time and you realize that he is a man of integrity, you can get to know him more by asking for his support and appreciating him, but don’t become sexually involved with him until you are in an exclusive relationship. In this way, you have the control of your love life. If he doesn’t have what it takes to make you happy, stop asking for his support and let him go. This way it will be easier for you to gradually open your heart and surrender to love. Just remember, set the standards for what you want in a man and don’t settle for less. And follow these dating stages: friendship, discovery, exclusive romantic dating, and engagement to ensure that you are going to be treated with understanding, respect, and love. But also, make sure you guard your heart by walking away from toxic or emotionally unavailable men. Don't have sex with a man until he has actually developed feelings for you. Men lose respect for women when they give sexual gratification too soon and unfortunately once women make this mistake they cannot change the way they are perceived by those males. Most men are unaware of their natures to understand why they react that way. And unfortunately, many of them don’t care or are too busy having fun.
For a man sex with a woman for who he has no feelings is meaningless. Abbe is seventy years of age and he emphasized that “for a man, sex with a woman for who he has no feelings is like a sex with a prostitute”. However, this is something that even some men have to learn because most of them are as brainwashed by the media as women are, and it takes quite some time for them to discover this. This is important for women to understand it because they can’t change men’s nature, but they can understand it, so, they don’t set themselves up for disappointment.
Men are driven by challenge. When you tell a man that you like him because you don’t want to play any games, you spoiled the fun and kill his interest. Don’t play games just give him the challenge to prove that he has what it takes to make you happy before you become emotionally or sexually involved with him. For men, if it took work get it, it is worth keeping it. If a man earned your love, he would definitely want to keep it. If it was easily giving it to him, he won’t care losing it.
Contrary to what most women think, men want a lot more than just sex. They want to make a difference in women’s lives, and make them happy. When women understand this important characteristic in men, they will appreciate them more, and be in harmony with them.
For many women, it comes as a big surprise to realize that men have feelings too, and that they have completely different emotional necessities. Therefore, rather than to learn all the Kama Sutra poses, ladies need to learn how to support men emotionally, because from there it generates the love and passion that keeps the attraction alive. Thus, sex will be more meaningful and passionate for the two of them. A man needs to be needed, wanted, loved, appreciated, admired and respected to fall in love with a woman, and to stay that way. Check my book to find out the right way to show him that you want him at the beginning without being sexually involved.
Use contraception responsibly because women get pregnant, men don't, and yes, females can have an abortion, but how many pregnancies are they willing to end? Unfortunately, once a woman is sexually active, the chances of becoming pregnant are huge. According with the Census Bureau in 2009, 41 percent of births were to single women. And in 2010, there were 9.9 million single mothers, almost the triple registered in 1970, which was 3.4 million.
I moved to the United States in my mid-twenties and I discovered a completely new culture in which most men show no respect towards women, and most women don’t respect themselves either. In the U.S. men have been preconditioned to receive oral sex and have intercourse with women without any condition. However, I feel compassion for women in America because I realize that for decades they have been bombarded with wrong messages to go against their nature, and behave liberal, sexually available, or immoral and without realizing it, they are the ones encouraging men to use them as sexual objects.
In America the sexual revolution’s ideas and the creation of the pill have brought detrimental changes for many women and their children. It is time for women to make the necessary changes to actually obtain fulfillment, love and romance. Women in America need to precondition men differently. They must unite with other women and stop giving sexual gratification to men without any requirement. Men have to earn that privilege. |
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