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Go strait to the point when communicating to men. So, you keep the attraction alive. Be flirtatious, concise, wit and challenging in a sexy way. But avoid talking too much when making a point; this is boring for men. Keep all the details for your female friends. In addition, avoid talking in a monotone; if English is your second language, watch videos of your favorite actress and imitate her intonation. In this way, he will die to run to your side, not the opposite way.
Karla asked me this question. The way to avoid conflicts is to write down all your upset feelings in a nice way, or using profanity if that helps you to release your anger and rip the paper into a million pieces and break the pen or pencil. Take a walk, breath in and exhale slowly as you walk. Remind yourself that you chose to be in peace and radiate love. Give your man time and space when he is stress out or upset. He will calm down and then you can ask for what you want with the conviction will give it to you because he loves you and wants to make you happy. Listen to him and compromise too; love is a give and take, but you must give what he actually needs.
Mia wrote me asking this question and the answer is: he will smile more around you, he will try to see you more often, he will be more caring towards you, and his eyes will shine when he is close to you.
The United States is the only place in the world, where men expect females to behave like easy women. And if you allow them, they will treat you like that. With your behavior you must show them that you have moral values and self-respect. So, they will treat you like a lady. Men truly value women than don't give sexual gratification too soon and to almost anyone. Conservative Feminism is still the way to go. Pursue equality in the professional arena, but not in the sexual one, otherwise you become just a booty call.
Most European countries like Italy, France, England, Spain and most countries in Latino America like Brazil, Argentina, Mexico, Colombia, etc. have paternalist cultures. However, even when men come from any of those countries, many of them change their behavior in the U.S. because their perception of the American women is different; they perceived them as easy women. And I am not just talking about Caucasian women; they perceived most women living in America as liberals. Unfortunately, when American women visit those countries they are perceived that way too. And sadly, many women that come from paternalist cultures to America acquire that liberal behavior, more out of confusion that a real conviction.
Many American women have the wrong idea that everywhere in the world women are treated like easy women, like in America, but it is not like that. Many countries around the world have been influenced by the American culture, and they may have changed, but never to the point that it is in the U. S. According to my interviews with foreign women, just 20 to 30 percent of women in paternalist cultures are more liberal now. Paternalist cultures are mostly conservative. In those countries the media and the pop culture still promote the reality about family, love and moral values in movies, videos, radio, magazine articles and song lyrics. The more people can identify with what they portrayed, the more successful it is.
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